Yeah I tried talking about it. He says it's all me, I'm changing, I'm projecting this on him. When I say well what about x y and z all showing you changed, he gets defensive. He even agreed with me that he was mean, but didn't apologize or anything or see that maybe I'm right and he is taking out some anger on me.

I'd love to think he realized he was getting too close but I think he just wanted me less close because it's no longer working for him.