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Old Jul 05, 2016, 11:55 AM
SarahSweden SarahSweden is offline
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Thanks. Yes, thatīs right, I would have left her if I had other alternatives. Iīm not sure whatīs worst, being with a T that I donīt like that much or being left on my own outside the health care system.

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Originally Posted by lolagrace View Post
I suspect you would have already left this therapist if you felt you had other options, but you stay because you feel you have no other options. I guess the bottom line is that you need to figure out what your bottom line is. Does seeing any T, even an imperfect one, have a benefit for you? Or, is seeing this imperfect T creating more problems than it is helping? You need to sit down and weigh the pros and cons and figure out if the pros outweigh the cons or vise versa. Right now, like others have said, you seem to be in a place of finding a justification for leaving the therapist. The only person you need to justify it to is yourself. It doesn't sound like a perfect situation by a long shot; however, you also said in another thread that you won't be okay on your own. Is that justification enough to stay? Or, do you need to rethink your ability to function on your own without the support of a therapist?
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