Update: so I did cancel, without much explanation to my T. The following week I had to cancel as well for a job interview. I called back to set up some more sessions, and T and I have been playing phone tag trying to find a time that works. This last phone message she calls and uses another clients name again... Ugh. I just left her a message saying I really only want to meet via Skype, Face time or in person. I let her know I'm getting more personal feedback that the phone is not working, and that I need the visual feedback, and need to know that my provider is getting the visual feedback as well. I also said I'm not sure if the FaceTime/ Skype will work, but am willing to try... I know mistakes happen, and I'm starting to feel that the phone is just too disconnected to work for therapy.