Hello my name is Jessica and I am on here today to seek group support. I am a 27 year old single mother of a 2 year old little girl. Her father is in her life but we are not together. We have been through alot these past 2 years since my daughter been born, he was living with this woman who he was in a relationship with for about 8 years all along while he was together with me. I am still bitter about that situation and even more distraught and hurt now. My daughter told me one day "she changed my pamper" and i said who? she then said her" she said it in front of me and her dad that day. I asked him did he have his ex-girlfriend change her pamper and he said NOOOOO! are you serious i dont have anyone change her pamper, so to avoid a fight i said okay no problem. That same day I showed a picture of the woman to my child and she said thats MOTHER! she changed my pamper. My heart broke in a million pieces. To hear my child call her that broke me and until this day it is eating me up alive. Please someone help me i dont know what to do. I am reaching a breaking point and I want to believe her father is not doing this behind my back especially with the same woman he cheated on me with and who i asked never to have my daughter around. My daughter is very smart for her age and i feel she wouldnt be saying what she said for no reason.
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