I chose the first one but on second thought that's not correct either. None of these have quite the right wording.

For me, my Transference didn't happen because of "The situation" - being in a room with an intelligent caring person who focuses on me is a factor, yes but the root is not that. The root of it is based in my own need. I've had the same feelings before with teachers and older co-workers. So no .

IMO, Transference isn't something that happens 'to me' it's something that occurs as an expression of need from within me.