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Old Jul 05, 2016, 09:36 PM
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Originally Posted by BrazenApogee View Post
I obsess over my T all the time. He lets me write though. It helps. I was almost nonverbal when I met him so it may be just the fact that he's willing to do anything that helps. I think the obsession thing is part of attachment.

I think what she is telling you is that she wants to be closer by talking instead of being read to. What if you brought an outline of "talking points" instead to help the discussion? Just an idea.
I've tried that but the problem is I tend to down play things if I don't have the exact words written down. So instead of saying "I've been feeling extremely depressed and have been having trouble getting out of bed" I will just say "I've been feeling kind of depressed" which doesn't really communicate the magnitude of the issue. I don't really know how to overcome this.

I've spoken to T about my attachment issues but again, I don't know how to overcome it
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