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Originally Posted by sumowira
By definition, if you feel like you're drained of energy because you're no longer around people all day, you're an extrovert. What you should do is make sure you're out of the house and interacting with people every day. You might even look into getting a summer job, like waitressing, just so you interact with people. It will distract you from the negative thoughts, and you'll feel better being around people.
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I'm an extrovert...I think. But I don't feel comfortable with people. Only with a few ones who I feel accepted and understand me. Most of tge time, I enjoy my solitary time. Normaly, being around people for a time leaves me without energy because it's exhausting the constant worring about if I'm doing things well and I'm being accepting. My main fear is to see a detail than can lead me to think that I'm not welcome or making a mistake.
Along with this, I end up so tired after doing so much effort to do things that can be consider welldone. And of course, there's always a but.
But, You're right. In some way, I have to involve myself in doing things on my free-time because I know that if I let me go, I will feel worse in my self-esteem and confidence. I'm afraid I got used to a certain dossage of stress and it's like a drug.