Dear dear (((((((((((((((( inny )))))))))))))))))))
Not to worry hon.....we all have our good times and our bad. The great thing is, when you are feeling down we can lift you up and when you are feeling up, you can help us when we're down. It all ebbs and flows like the tide hon. Take care of #1 first and the rest will fall into place.
xoxoxo
sabby