Have you asked your friends why they get together without you when they're reportedly too busy?


I once felt similarly to you, turns out my friends thought they were doing me a favor because they know I'm not the "drinking buddy" type and I find drunk people highly irritating. So I was being deliberately excluded from "lets get drunk" get togethers.


My point is, there's possibly a reason behind your exclusion, good, bad or ugly, best way to find out is to ask directly.


If they can't, won't or don't answer, then best to find yourself some new friends.