Well perhaps she is well versed but is just not getting your situation, that's frustrating. Doesn't sound like she is homophobic, mine weren't homophobic just idiots when it came to matters they haven't experienced nor could they. I suspect my current t is a bit homophobic and so I don't talk about relationships with her. This sounds important though, it sounds like you really need your t to try and understand.
I find the most frustrating part for them to understand is that there are only about ten other lesbians in my area that I know but I am not at all attracted to the ones who are available, this leaves me with zero options. T then says I am not trying and I say have you not been listening to a word I have said.

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