thanks everyone. and yeah blue she did just move from erie to Pittsburgh within the last month got a new job here, and lived with her parents for 2 weeks, now she just got her own place over the weekend. and her job sounds super intense, like the training period is 3 months, and she just started. so I guess that makes sense.

anywho, my plan is to just ease off a bit give her some space. she did say she wanted to go out again so i'll do that, just don't know when the right time is I don't want to seem pushy. and basically see how things go from there.