Both times, I believe the admission was voluntary. I'm not sure if it was at the request of her doctor or parents, she never told me.

I do know enough Japanese to communicate these issues to her doctor. But the problem is seeing her doctor. As I said, my wife refuses to have me go with and I have no way of contacting the doctor myself. She has the doctor's contact information, won't give it to me if I ask for it, and won't tell me where she keeps it. I don't even know the doctor's name and even if I did, I wouldn't know how it's written in kanji. So there's no way for me to look up the information in the phonebook.