Am I being unfair for not wanting my boyfriend talking to a girl who he used to "talk" to, had feelings for and had phone sex with. They never met in person because she lives states away but considered being together and moving for him. Now they are just friends and only talk via text. They've been friends for 8 years.

He says I'm being unfair because I have 2 best gay guy friends. One who has been my best since 1st grade but he fingered me and our other friend at the age of 13. My boyfriend says sexual relations change things. The other gay friend has made out with my sisters while they were drunk years ago, I drink with them too but nothing has ever happened. My boyfriend thinks that one is bi so it makes him uncomfortable.

I've been in a group text message for years with these guys and another girl friend. My boyfriend is also uncomfortable with them texting me and snapchatting at all hours at night. I moved states away from all of them to be with my bf so our only communication is through text and snaps. other than when I visit home.

Thanks everyone