I personally think that you're being a bit hypocritical. Your bf has been friends with this woman for 8 years. While they may have had something going on for part of that, they are still just friends.
It sounds like you both have some trust/jealousy issues that you need to work on together. Putting restraints on who your partner can have contact with is just going to lead to resentment. It's not like a situation where one of you has cheated on the other or done something else that's a major breech of trust.
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