I totally have problems finding healthy friendships. I also ten to gravitate towards people with a lot of their own issues. Lots of times I end up in friendships with people who tend to be really self absorbed and pile their problems on me without offering any support to me for my problems in return. The friendships always start out great but they deteriorate quickly and I end up always being angry with them and wanting to avoid them because even if I wanted to confide in them they'd turn the conversation back to themselves within about 5 minutes of me trying to ask advice about my own issues. It's super frustrating.