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Originally Posted by dwfieldjr
I know by now online dating might not be the best way to meet people, but I have a question. If a woman responds to your email once and you ask another question of her and she waits two days to respond back....should a guy respond back to her right away or wait a little bit. I didn't know if a guy responds back right way if that would make her think he is to needy or doesn't have anything to do with his time.
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You're over thinking it. I don't think many people really think about how long it takes for the other person to respond most times. Are there some people who do so? sure but I think more often than not if it's someone we want to hear from, we are just happy to get the response. Besides if she's scrutinizing the minutes, days, hours whatever it takes for you to respond, is that really someone that you want to have a relationship anyway?
Be yourself. Just do what you feel is right by you, don't try to be something you're not. if you're resisting responding for reasons to make it look like you're less excited to talk to her, then you're not being you.
As for me, for the most part, if it's someone I care about or care to get to know I respond as soon as I have a chance to. The person on the other end can take it or leave it. This is how I am and I'm not going to be any different esp not for a new acquaintance!