Agree with Panda completely. Although it's not a "bit" hypocritical. it's entirely so. What I mean is, expect from others what you want to have expected of you. If it's ok for you to speak with and be friends with someone that you had sex with, regardless of past sexual relations because there is nothing going on now, then give your bf the same. If you're capable of having friends without being sexual with them, by the same standard your bf can do the same.