Moreso Amanda, don't try to understand everything categorize with a supportive hug or your not alone...I'm not your gossip channel only for people with the capacity, I wouldn't want to be charged with splitting you if your capable of taking on introjects like my system. If you shared that I wouldn't see it as an indictment only just more of supportive caring friend to my alter 'shaly' of your system..Thing is I wouldn't want to talk only with shaly because you might be like me since she might have to live for the others she is sharing with who she is co conscious with. ....I'd just be cordial if you shared that.