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Originally Posted by Fredje
Difficult story because there are always 2 sides to a story. I might tell you totally the opposite of what people tell you here, since I have learned not to judge someone on just one side of the story. I have no experience with this, so please take it with a grain of salt and if I am mistaken my appologies 
Question number one that pops up is: " What kind of woman is that? " If suddenly your boyfriend/man/lover comes home with a child, you don't ask questions? Question number two: " Is the father of the child trying to make your child see a different mother? "
Since he cheated on you before with that same woman, how about just totally removing his rights to even have your daughter at his place? I don't think he is lying to you, since it doesn't really add up all together if the woman he would be with has never questioned where the child came from.
All I do agree with is that the one you had the child with is an complete a$$hole. Even tough I am stricly against positive discrimination towards women when it comes to children, I think it's best to start writing that letter to your lawyer. |
I am not sure if you are aware but it is
very difficult to remove parental rights. There needs to be documented abuse or neglect of a child, otherwise judge wouldn't deny child time with her father.
In fact if mother demands removal of parental rights with no foundation, she comes across as unreasonable and confrontational. Judges often decide things that are opposite of what's expected, judge might say child is better off with the dad or order joined custody.
Typically if there is no abuse and neglect, courts would not care who parents date or sleep with. It has nothing to do with parenting. They aren't a couple and are free to date others. Unless it interferes with parenting most of the time there is nothing could be done. OP might request that when child is there his girlfriend won't sleep over, maybe it will be granted or maybe not, but you can't demand her not come around during the day.
Also we don't know if his girlfriend asked or didn't ask about the baby or where it came from.
Most certainly this man is a total jerk but it's usually not enough to determine him unfit father in the eyes of the kaw.
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