I think my issue is that im letting my feelings and emotions get in the way of us trying to coparent. I hate the fact that all he considers me as is his baby mother when from the start i told him i didnt want to be a single mother or baby mother. I wanted us to be a family, i visioned us being together and maybe one day getting married but everything happens for a reason and im taking the necessary steps in becoming a better woman. thank you all for the feedback.