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Originally Posted by imarae
I think my issue is that im letting my feelings and emotions get in the way of us trying to coparent. I hate the fact that all he considers me as is his baby mother when from the start i told him i didnt want to be a single mother or baby mother. I wanted us to be a family, i visioned us being together and maybe one day getting married but everything happens for a reason and im taking the necessary steps in becoming a better woman. thank you all for the feedback.
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I agree with your emotions and what you mentioned before about having closure. dont' rely on others to give you closure. you close the door when they prove that they are not going to give you that. It's not as easy when this is the case but I think it is sorely needed here. I think it you can detach yourself from the idea that being a family is never going to happen and you accept it, all the rest will fall into place
