I would suggest you see a Therapist and find out the root of your problem when it comes to dating, could be low self esteem or just plain confused on how to even go on dates.

I know the saying is old and most don't buy it .. but.... Until your happy with yourself you won't be ready to have any luck dating and connecting with a possible partner.

My Step son had lots of the same issues you are having.... he spent some time in therapy and learned alot about himself and how to actually date with out shooting himself in his foot.

Good luck and welcome to PC