Oh wow ..

Okay, I didn't realize you have so many threads with trouble you are having with the baby's father....

I won't reply to all of them, Just focus on your child... stop sleeping him get tested for STD's.

Respect yourself more. If you and him can't come to agreements on visitation and whatnot then you need to get a moderator or social worker involved so Boundaries can be set for both you and in writing so they will be followed.

Good luck