This surely sounds frustrating for you, I’m so sorry to hear that you are going through this.

I have a couple of suggestions.

Firstly, to state the obvious, in order to date someone, you need to harbor some sort of connection. A connection needs to form organically and cannot be forced. So obviously these girls did not connect with you and vice versa. But how do we make connections? By having things in common with others. Why don’t you take classes for things that interest you and see if you make any connections rather than just dating? Or take a course at a university? Putting yourself in social settings will help you meet new people and have the added benefit of honing your social skills.

Additionally, have you considered dating classes? You can find them online or in person, depending on where you are. It’s a great way to learn some new skills, learn how to connect with others, learn how to understand others, and maybe boost your self-esteem. Couldn’t hurt to at least take a peek.

Good luck with everything!