I'm about 8 weeks along and have not spoken with my mother for almost double that amount of time.

Life has been easier without speaking to her, but I feel like this is important and I'd like to write a card rather than call since we live on opposite sides of the country.

What do I say without giving her an automatic "in" back into my life? I want low contact with her - I just need to be wise with what I say and not get too emotional.

TIA