I do also think that some of this anger is just a bit excessive for the situation almost like they are hitting me except their not they are just talking to me I am just reacting that way and I need to learn to stop reacting that way. Things that most people wouldn't get annoyed over I do so I told myself that I was going to think about the things I enjoy instead of getting angry over situations I maybe imagining in my mind. They do something normal like talk to me and then I am imagine this scenario that they are like I don't know groping me etc. It's those automatic thoughts that I need to change when men talk to me rationalize that they are not groping me they are just being a bit excessive in calling me but then again I never told them to stop or leave me alone, I just told my sister too. How can they know my sister didn't just get my phone and was pranking them? How are they going to know. Like lots of things they do I just assume the worst and it is really killing my friendships with them and my overrall perspective on men.