Ichbin: I'm talking about when someone wants a response within minutes of sending a message. It is rather needy and unfair because it's expecting someone to drop everything at someone else's whim. I wasn't talking about responding within the same day. ��

I think 2 days for someone to reply on a dating site is totally fine. They could have been out of town, or meeting some deadlines, or just doing stuff they like to do. She might not be super active in looking for dates and may just be using the site just to see what's there. Or maybe she got used to not having many messages so doesn't check the site very often anymore. Tons of reasons! ��