You're both being giant babies.


That's my "professional" opinion.


You're adults, act like it and address the real problem, which is that neither of you trust the other.


If this was my relationship?

My bf and I would be ok with each of those friends you've described.


Try less controlling jealousy and more communication and trust building.


PS. I too am baffled as to how you made the decision to move in with a man (far away from home) without even establishing a foundation of trust first. Seems very reckless to me.