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You are so brave to even want to say this!

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Really? Why? I thought it seemed self-centered, attention-seeking and insecure... you know, the essence of me, lol.

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Because you are opening yourself up to the possibility of his saying "1" or even "4" or "I wouldn't really be sad at all--I have lots of clients and am used to parting ways with them." Risk of rejection. Of course, I know your T would never say that!