I attract people with issues also. Something about me, makes them gravitate towards me.

Years ago, I was told that the first person I'm attracted to in a room, is probably the worst person for me. I'm attracted to disfunction because of my own early life disfunction. It's natural and comfortable for me. I think it takes a lot of work to break these patterns, but it can be done.

When I met my husband, he was not my type, but he was so sweet I decided to give it a chance. Best decision I've ever made. He's a pretty easy going and stable guy. He's really helped keep me stable and out of trouble for more than a decade. I guess what I'm saying is, if you keep meeting the same kinds of people, step out of your comfort zone a little and try talking to people you usually wouldn't.

(((Hugs)))