Hello rex_salvebo2: I'm sorry you & your SO have encountered this difficulty. I'm not sure I know what a "cam site" is. I presume it has to do with on-line pornography. Assuming this is correct, one thing you might do is to take a look at this website:

Overcoming Pornography Addiction

Beyond that I would suggest that you consider some individual therapy for yourself & perhaps some couples counseling for the two of you. Best wishes...