Although I agree with others that having opposite sex friends to talk and spend time with is perfectly fine. I shared that I have that in my life and it's ok.

What I see as a huge issue though is that so called long distance friend he never met is or was phone sex buddy. And those guy friends were fingering etc

So to all honesty these are former ( or current) sex partners, not just friends. It makes a difference.

Also none of them know other person. I don't see this as normal situation of having friends

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