Have you asked him for a picture where you ask him to hold some random item, that is another way to confirm that he is indeed showing you actual pictures of himself.

I know you disagree with him still really being in the stranger from many of our responses .. But he is a stranger until you meed in public and spend some time with him. Hell you might not like him at all in real life.

Your just meeting him, Hopefully in a public place and he is not picking you up at home, Safety comes first.

Is this Guy 1 or guy 2 that you are meeting?