I think... that they are clueless...
the residual effect will show up.. at some point in her life... there is no way.. that it won't....therapist like that should be banned if he really did say that... because it will show up...
and it was important that they find them... so there had to be exposure via media..
However, these two.. have been "outted" for the their future.. not by their choice... and I believe that will also have an impact upon their lives...
The decision to share whether you have been abused... and at what point you are ready to do that.. is a very personal choice....or it should be..
I am not by any means saying that anyone should be ashamed of having people know... just that it is powerful knowledge... and having a right to share that or not share it.. belongs to the victum.. or it should..
just my opinion...
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