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Originally Posted by Waterbear
Its OK. She worked for a charity. I started seeing her when I lost my Mum but could not continue because the charity did not fund the long term work we both knew, deep down, was required. I think we were both very sad about that but she has left the door open in case this does not work out with new T. I will never be able to do this work with her but she will always be there for me if I need some help while I find someone who can. But, I believe that this is possible with New T and, when I am able to accept that I can't work with old T, maybe I will see her again just to catch up every once in a while. She said that would be OK. But for now, to see her would be too difficult.
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I am very sorry that you feel you can't do the work with your new t. It sounds like you and your old t had a very special bond. It sounds like it take a while for you to accept that you can't do the work with old t and perhaps this is preventing you from developing a relationship with new t. It sounds very painful
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Originally Posted by Out There
She doesn't seem to " hear " you she shows you what it looks like. I can imagine how that feels. It must be frustrating. I did some work with my T last night that had him sitting forward in his chair along these lines , he gets it. I'm sorry you're not finding it with your T.
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Thank you Outhere, I wish my t would try harder sometimes. I need a t to really listen and not contradict me. She really didn't get why I was angry and that's ok it's hard to understand people's emotions and reactions sometimes but I felt she got defensive and blamed me. Anytime I criticise the counselling profession for something that everyone knows is crap she will blame me. Like how are you angering yourself about this Mona!
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Originally Posted by Argonautomobile
That sounds dreadful, MLS. I'm really sorry this is happening  |
Thank you
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Originally Posted by rainbow8
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I agree the fit is not right, we will never fit together and that's a great loss for me. Sometimes it feels as though we are from different planets.
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Originally Posted by 1stepatatime
Sending hugs your way,Mona[emoji4][emoji4][emoji4][emoji4]. Take a trip across the pond and let's go to the beach[emoji267][emoji267][emoji267][emoji474][emoji474][emoji474]
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Oh that sounds lovely because it's July, windy and lashing rain here 1step. T would say how am I depressing myself but sometimes the outside environment plays a big part.
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