Hi Anthony,

Welcome to PC.
I am sorry for the pain you and your family have endured. Glad you've decided to take a more constructive road, in hopes of saving yourself and potentially your marriage/family.

It's very important to work with someone who will allow your wife to accompany you if you so desire. If you desire reconciliation, your wife will need to know what's happening, step-by-step. Sometimes one practitioner will see the importance of this and will allow this. Other times, this can only occur through couples counseling. A "team" approach is most effective.

Either way, be sure to get yourself started with stabilization.

Hope to see you around!

WC