Hey
Glad to hear everything is running smooth. Any chances that you still talk to your mother?
I would ask her what was she thinking and why did she wanted me to stay there. From then, i could see the problem much better, regardless of her answer.
I tend to have similar situations with my parents, telling me to do stuff i don't want, besides also listening to them and actually DOING stuff i don't want in order to help them.
So... This is my humble advice, ask, but pay attention in her answer and how does she answer
Cheers and good luck