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I'm not making any judgement...

I can definitely see how posting helps, but I can see how forcing oneself to make the admittingly huge effort to change one's life helps more.

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It sounds to me as though you ARE implicitly making a judgement.

How about changing "admittedly huge effort" to "seen as a life-threatening effort"?