Well I'm home from my trip. I came back feeling refreshed and committed to make an effort to just be nicer. I suffer from PMDD so that's a challenge all in itself. With that said, he's still the same, but he notices when he's being a complete turd and actually apologizes, so that's something. I figure wherever we are at now took 10 years to get there so I shouldn't expect significant change in a matter of days.