Growing up is laughing in the faces of those that try to say nasty and hurtful things about you. I used to get offended when people said nasty things used to sweat it now I find it so amusing! Someone said I was an alcholic? I laugh my *** off and think and what the **** where is that coming from? It makes good comedy if you let these *****es project there own negativity on you they will never become accountable for there own action. Let's face it the majority of people that insult others are projecting there own insecurities onto you I will laugh if she is the one who ends up alcholic on the street with nothing begging others for a drink. Like I always say it is all about perspective... Perspective is probably the best thing in the world.