Thanks, you are absolutly right of course. The other stuff I have goin on has nothing to with bpd (including the one thing that I came here in the first place for), and I am self aware enough to realise ignoring them to give myself a label could be detrimental.. I just thought that bpd fitted me, I can say yes to all of the symptoms, from a moderate to high level, and would explain alot. I am goin to my gp (i will now stick to symptoms not assumption tho!) And I hope I can get some help. Thank you again