Hey, Not sure where you're at at the moment with everything but I strongly encourage you to STOP torturing yourself. Stop checking, stop looking, stop digging for pain. You're looking for signs to confirm that he is what you suspect and maybe know he is... A person who does not care about you and is "fishing" around, offering up his attention and approval to the photos of other women. Why bother wasting your energy on this guy.

There is a wonderful book I read called Getting Past Your Breakup by Susan Elliott, who is a therapist. She encourages us to take inventory of our relationships and our life after devastating breakups. That book in combination with NO CONTACT, meaning no communicating, and NO SPYING is what really jumpstarted my healing process. Best of luck.