To the OP, you know this is just an online forum and not therapy, right? Users of this forum have no obligation (or ability) to be your therapist. The owner of this forum and site have full authority to make and enforce rules as they see fit. The owner also has the right to post on HIS OWN FORUM and site as he wants to. I, for one, love to see Doc John participate in discussions. And the other mods too. It makes me feel like they are part of us, not just here to regulate the forums.