See, grabbing his heart, that's very dramatic and over the top.


When my bf told me he loved me he didn't act like an idiot, and he didn't dramatize the thing in front of an audience. He told me privately, like normal people do.


So I am now more convinced than ever that he was goofing off and didn't realize you'd take it seriously.


He obviously knows now and that's why he's avoiding you, but what's done is done.


So sorry you didn't realize he was fooling around and developed feelings for him, but as expressed above, chalk it up to experience.