Hi black roses. I just noticed you're an Aussie like me. I'm so sorry that you have so much anger atm. Do you feel better for venting?
Some people care a great deal what others think, some of us don't. Is that your mum's way of coping with things she doesn't understand? Is there worry about you underlying this that she can't express? Some people are uncomfortable with emotions they don't know what to do with, and express themselves in strange ways. I had screaming arguments with my mum in my teens and all she cared about was that the neighbours would hear!
I was wondering if you live with your mum? Do you have to see her if you choose not to?
I hope life gets better for you very soon. xx