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I feel as if you want someone specific (not that you do, that's just the way I read your profile). I would tell myself that I couldn't measure up to you. I have been married forever, but I do have daughters who are dating so I know what they think. Please don't take my words as criticism. It is just an honest reaction to your profile. (I do get it, it's lovely, but a lot of women think they have some kind of checklist.... but, really, they want to be swept up in a grand romantic gesture....then get to know who you are)

Like I said above, I haven't always had an outline for what I was specifically looking for. I've tried it both ways. A lot, I mean A LOT, of people who've reviewed my profile insist that you won't get anywhere if you don't put in what you're looking for. I've been back-and-forth on so much of this for so long now. Seems like no matter what I write, it's wrong.