Well you are on dating sites to meet women, right, not just do things that make you comfortable. It's safer for a woman when matches are delivered. If I don't want to speak to that person they will never see my profile. On other sites men sometimes wouldn't leave me alone ever after a rejection. Also I was getting a lot of messages on other sites and there is no way I would even have time to reply. Eharmony felt safer to me. That's why I initially decided to try it. Some other women might think the same. But that's just a suggestion.

Thousands of women and none respond? Thousands?

You keep saying whatever you are doing is wrong yet when people suggest something you always decline ( looks, sites, profiles etc )and kind of make it sound that you do things right and have a reason not to make any chances. Could it be you subconsciously sabotage yourself. You describe your modus operandi yet it's not working. You are saying you are open minded but your profile strikes me as very specific.

What if you just say you are a good person and looking for the same? All we really need is kindness, everything else could be worked out, it doesn't matter what music they like or what restaurant they eat.
When you finally get a date you can figure out details.
Again a suggestion that you will probably decline

Sorry I don't seem to be able to help you. Good luck with everything. Maybe when you move and get a job things would change for you. Sometimes location makes a difference. I won't be posting on your thread.

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