Why you are saying its forever? My fiancée had bankruptcy ( also primarily ex's doing) and he is surviving, we aren't rich but comfortable and he pays alimony to his ex who refuses to work. He pays for everything with debit card and cash, he gas a credit card but for emergency only. But he has no problem financing a car. Not even That high of interest. You can recover from bankruptcy. If it was 2007 then it's been 9 years, it should be clearing right now. After 9 years you should be able to move on

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