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Old Jul 11, 2016, 11:45 PM
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Originally Posted by scorpiosis37 View Post
It could be that guys find you physically attractive but they don't connect with your personality in person. Attraction is about more than looks. You often come across as a bit negative, and you've said you struggle with motivation, and that could turn people off in person.
I agree that I would come across to a lot of guys as not knowing what I am good at. I might appear a bit lost so they may not want to be a guide or a counsellor to me because I appear as someone who needs that extra guidance and maybe they just don't know how to help someone like me.