How can you reconcile ??? You don't really know him, not really.. You only know what he has decided to tell you ...

He obviously is into things that you are not, so setting boundaries? How are boundaries going to change his mind in what he is looking for in partner/partners.

Do you think you can make him a "one woman man" ?

You have always talked about finding someone and have a mutual love and it be a healthy relationship... Maybe you should really sit down and spend some times thinking about what you want in a relationship and stick to it. No more sex talk with guys you don't know would be a good place to start, Im only saying this based off your threads after you have done this you feel terrible about doing so.